How to attract wealth and happiness and influence people

How to attract wealth and influence people


The law of attraction can simply be defined as what you emit in your thoughts, feelings, and actions to the world will be attracted back into your life. Essentially, every good or bad event that happens in your life could have been attracted by you.

Being wealthy is the desire of every human on planet earth and there is only one universal way to get wealth, happiness and influence people.

The oft-quoted Jim Rohn adage that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with has been found to be pretty accurate. Successful people tend to hang out with a bunch of other successful people. That’s not so much due to exclusivity as it is similar interests.

While much younger, we all believe that the only way out to make money is through having a degree that will help us to secure a job in a blue-chip company. As the years go by, it is now obvious that working in a blue chip company isn’t the only way to make money.

There is nothing wrong to aim for wealth but there are certain things you must do because wealth is not gotten by an accident, or by a get rich quick schemes.

Being wealthy isn’t all about the amount of money in your account but on the number of people you have influenced and on your level of happiness.

In order to attract wealth and happiness and influence people, you must read through and follow the steps below.

  1. Avoid entitlement mentality.

Wealthy people have a positive mentality towards making money and do not depend on people’s wealth to make their own money. An entitlement mentality is when one always believes that he has a right to another person’s wealth who could be a family member or friend.

Most people born into wealthy home do have this sense of belonging when it comes to building wealth. Instead of building their own wealth, they hold too much on money that they have never worked for.

Being an heir to an inheritance isn’t a crime but it’s certainly not advisable to depend solely on it.

2. Focus on what you have right now.

Don’t fall into the trap of dwelling over what you don’t have or have lost. This kind of thinking only builds negative energy, which the universe will throw back at you. Instead, focus on all the good things in your life right now. Show gratitude  and be thankful for everything in your life, from the food and water to the your job, family, and friends.

3. Believe you are worthy of happiness

Aristotle, one of the greatest philosophers, wrote thousands of years ago that the ultimate aim of all human action is happiness. He said that everything a person does, they do to achieve happiness of some kind. Sometimes they are successful other times not but the ultimate goal is always happiness. But how do you personally achieve happiness?

Part of attracting wealth requires that you believe you are worthy of happiness. Notice I did not say you are entitled to happiness. The operative word is worthy. The secret to creating happiness begins with our self-view.

None of the other steps mentioned here can be taken until you truly believe you are worthy of happiness. In order for this to happen, you must let go of the guilt and shame associated with the past.

4. Avoid  jealousy. 

Don’t occupy your thoughts with jealousy. While it may appear that someone else may have more wealth in their lives than you, it doesn’t mean they are more prosperous. Make room for joy in your life by embracing the little things in life that make you happy. When you are jealous of other people’s wealth, definitely you are repelling wealth from your life.

  1. Respect the power of money.

According to the article, “Money is the byproduct of your hard work and labor”. Respect your money and keep it organized. Respecting your money means that you keep track of it on a regular basis and you recognize that money holds restorative and destructive powers. When you manage your money well, it has the power to be restorative and take care of you for years. However, when you disrespect money and use it for unneeded spending, it can be destructive and negatively impact your future.

Develop a healthy relationship with money. Drawing more wealth and prosperity towards you means having a good money habits. Here are some signs that you have a good relationship with money:

  • You track your money
  • You protect your assets with insurance and good financial advice
  • You avoid debt and you spend your money wisely.

Having a good relationship with money also means you know how and when to give it away to help others in need.

6. Give to people in need. 

If you try to hoard money and keep it all for yourself, it will eventually leave you. Money has a spiritual and karmic power. When we give to those who are in need, the universe will grant us with wealth in return. It may not be immediate or in the form of currency, but we will be granted with positive energy. You don’t necessarily need to give money away, but something of value, such as your time.

Giving i would rather say is synonymous to wealth. In Bamidele Onibalusi article he talked more about the power behind giving. You can have a view of his thought in this link

7. Study wealth.

Anyone who has achieved success in any endeavor in life has given a measurable of time to study the process of what they are doing.

In other to get wealth, one has to put same attitude into consideration.

Take the time to learn all about money and how wealth is accumulated. Learn from those around you who have created or attracted wealth. You must understand that those who are truly wealthy and prosperous are not those who wear expensive clothing or live lavish lifestyles. The wealthiest people are the happiest people, no matter their income.

What you give your attention to grows. If you focus your attention on how you save your pennies, those pennies will eventually turn into nickels and dimes, then quarters and dollars. Eventually, they’ll turn into feelings of financial security and satisfaction. By thinking positively and being grateful for the money you do have, rather than focusing on what you don’t have, you’ll naturally attract more wealth and financial abundance to you.

8. Respect yourself.

This attitude is critical if you want to attract more wealth and prosperity in your life. When you believe in yourself, you tend to take better care of yourself. You eat well, exercise and assert your needs effectively. You know that you are here for a reason. You have talents and skills that no other person on earth possesses. When you value your time and appreciate your worth, you won’t settle for less than you deserve. And that means you will attract more wealth and prosperity to you.

9. Visualize yourself living an abundant and rich life.

Picture having everything you could ever want in your life. What does that look like? What feelings, thoughts and emotions does that dream stir within you? People who can see themselves living a rich life have the capacity to make their financial dreams comes true. Why? Because they believe they deserve it. They know that financial success is something that can be achieved and they know what it looks like.

Your beliefs and attitudes about wealth and prosperity affect how much money you have. At the same time, these beliefs can also influence how much money you owe other people. Your beliefs can affect how long it takes to pay off debt or save for a dream vacation.

10. Align your thoughts and actions

This is the secret part of “the secret” that many people never implement. You have programmed your brain. Awesome. Seriously – really awesome. But what good does it do if you are taking zero action and laying around watching TV all day.

Good news is, I truly believe that someone that is 100% committed to his dream will not just lay around and watch T.V all day.